Baby Reindeer: Netflix’s new show considering the nature and impact of stalking

Posted on 22nd April 2024 by McAlister Family Law

Baby Reindeer: Netflix’s new show considering the nature and impact of stalking

“Baby Reindeer” is one of the most popular shows Netflix has to offer right now. Based on the creator, Richard Gadd’s, real life experiences, we are taken on a dark journey that explores the harrowing impact that stalking, harassment and sexual abuse has on its victims. Here, McAlister Family Law’s Nicola Bradley looks at how the law protects those being stalked.

Stalking involves a repeated pattern of obsessive behaviour that causes the victim to feel alarmed or distressed and possibly in fear for their personal safety. You can be stalked by someone you know very well, for example a family member or someone you have had an intimate relationship with, or by a total stranger whom you have never met or spoken to before.

Stalking is an insidious crime that often makes victims feel very frightened and anxious. Whilst the behaviour of stalkers varies from case to case, the repetitive nature of their unwanted attention is the common link flowing through their victim’s narratives. Whilst some stalkers may shower their victims with constant emails, texts and calls professing how much they love and admire them, be in no doubt that stalking has nothing to do with love. It is about power and control.

Any boundaries that you attempt to put in place with a stalker will be violated. Stalkers do not see their victims as individuals in their own right, they see them as possessions and objects that they have exclusive rights to.

A stalker will also engage in other abusive behaviours as their fixation intensifies. Their behaviour can escalate from a bombardment of messages, to turning up at your home or place of work, threatening your life of the lives of those you love and ultimately, they could become physically and\or sexually violent.

Similar to a cat toying with a mouse, stalkers thrive off instilling a sense of fear in their victims because it makes them feel powerful, untouchable and omnipotent. For the stalker, any attention or validation from the object of their fixation is enough to feed them and fuel the obsession further.

Victims of stalking are protected under the Protection from Harassment Act 1997 which makes this behaviour a criminal offence that can ultimately carry a prison sentence. If the stalker is someone close to you such as a family member or an ex-partner, you can apply for a Non-Molestation Order which will prevent the stalker from being able to contact you or even prevent them from coming within a certain distance of you and/or your home.

To assist victims in identifying whether the behaviour they are experiencing maybe categorised as stalking, the police have set out the following four warning signs:

Fixated

Obsessive

Unwanted

Repeated

It is very important to document any and all evidence you have of the stalkers behaviour within a chronology as this may assist the police in taking action against them.

If at any stage you feel as through your personal safety of those of others is at immediate risk, you must call 999 immediately and secure your safety and\or those of others. Victims of this crime should not attempt to reason with, excuse or rationalise the stalker’s behaviour, they are often unpredictable and have little to no control over their actions and obsessive nature.

If you need advice on this topic, or any other matters concerning divorce or family law, please get in touch with our team at McAlister Family Law.

Can you take children out of school to celebrate Eid al Fitr?

Posted on 9th April 20249th April 2024 by McAlister Family Law

Can you take children out of school to celebrate Eid al Fitr?

Eid al Fitr and the end of Ramadan is an incredibly important occasion for many families and an opportunity for parents who celebrate it to spend this special time with their children. But what if Eid falls on a weekday? Here, Nikki Bradley offers her advice for parents looking at taking their children out of school to celebrate the occasion on Wednesday.

For separated parents, celebrating Eid can present its own challenges and for parents whose religious views are not shared, there could be further challenges still. As Eid moves with the moon, it can be difficult for parents to plan arrangements around this event, which can lead to a strain being placed on co-parenting relationships. If Eid does not fall on a weekend, some parents may consider whether they would like to take their child out of school to celebrate the occasion.

Education is of course one of the key corner stones of any child’s upbringing and development and every school day should be treated as just as important as the last. However, there will be instances when children are required to miss school and the Department of Education sets out the circumstances in which this is acceptable. One of those circumstances if when an authorised absence is granted for the purposes of religious observance.

If you would like to take your child out of school to celebrate Eid, it is very important to discuss this issue with your co-parent first. Parents should be making decisions regarding education jointly and working together in the best interests of their child. This is particularly important if the relationship with your co-parent can be strained, and you find communication difficult. Making unilateral decisions without your co-parent’s input will only inflame any existing tensions between you and will make trust difficult to build over time.

If you approach this conversation with openness, transparency, and respect, you will hopefully be able to reach an agreement with your co-parent as to the plans for this special event. If you both agree that your child should celebrate this event outside of school, then the next step would be to approach the school in advance and seek their permission for your child’s absence to be authorised. Whilst it is a matter for the school as to whether that request is granted, many local authorities consider that Headteachers and their staff should have the religious and cultural needs of their children in the forefront of their minds and give serious consideration to such requests for time off during periods of religious observance.

If you cannot agree on whether your child should attend school during Eid, then it would be a good idea to consider inviting your co-parent to mediation to discuss matters in a safe, guided environment with a neutral professional to avoid tensions escalating.

If you need advice on this topic, or any other matters concerning divorce or family law, please get in touch with our team at McAlister Family Law.

Separated Parents: Contact in the Easter Holidays

Posted on 28th March 2024 by McAlister Family Law

Separated Parents: Contact in the Easter Holidays

Over a quarter of families living in the UK are separated families who are adopting the skills of co-parenting, which itself is a learning curve. School holidays can always be a challenging time to get the balance of co-parenting right. Parents may feel pressure to ensure that holidays are memorable and struggle to know what the best arrangements might be. Here, Charlotte Brenton looks at if it is possible to make it work for both parents and the children over the Easter Break.

It is important for parents to remain child focused, work together and always consider what is in the best interest of the children.

Here are some steps families can take to positively co-parent during the Easter holidays.

Ask your children what they want

Children should grow up having special memories with both parents including in the Easter holidays which is an exciting time for them. If they are old enough, they should have an input as to how they want to spend their time in the holidays.

Parenting Plan

A parenting plan is a great way of planning ahead so parents are not left fearing the unknown when school holidays are approaching. Parenting plans are often recommended by Cafcass (Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service). They are a written agreement between both parents which cover practical issues for the children. It can be tailored to include the term time and holidays including Easter. It allows parents to put the children’s needs first and allows quality time with both parents for the children.

Communication

It is important that parents are open, clear and respectful whilst communicating about arrangements. There are many ways parents can communicate and this is down to the individuals. Courts are currently particularly keen on separated parents using co-parenting apps to assist with their communication. The apps include shared calendars and secure communication.

Encouragement

However difficult, the general view is that parents should always try to encourage contact between the children and the other parent unless there are real concerns about risk. Consistency and patience is key whilst allowing the children to adapt to any new arrangements. Whilst it may not always be smooth sailing the aim is to allow your children to make positive memories in the Easter holidays.

Other options available

If you are struggling to resolve child arrangements, there are always other options available.

Mediation can be helpful. This allows parents to talk through the issues they are facing with a neutral impartial third party.

Another option, where mediation isn’t appropriate or hasn’t worked is to use legal professionals to try and resolve matters.

If you are making no progress, or where there are real concerns or urgent issues, you can apply to court to make a decision. The court will decide based on what it believes is in the child or children’s best interests.

If you need advice on this topic, or any other matters concerning divorce or family law, please get in touch with our team at McAlister Family Law.

I am Stalker- But what if I’m a victim?

Posted on 18th March 2024 by McAlister Family Law

I am Stalker – But what if I’m a victim?

“I am Stalker” is a new Netflix documentary about convicted stalkers in the US who talk about their personal experiences. Whilst for some viewers it is an interesting watch about true crime, it is actually an awful reality for victims of stalking. Here, Weronika Husejko looks at how victims of stalking can protect themselves through the family court.

Stalking has a fairly wide definition and some examples of stalking under the Protection from Harassment Act 1997 include: –

Following a person
Watching or spying on a person
Monitoring the use by a person of the internet or email

Stalking is generally considered to be a more aggressive type of harassment. However, it is not always easy to identify a victim of stalking. For example, stalking may include purchasing something in another person’s name without their consent.

The police say that the four warning signs of stalking are:-

Fixated
Obsessive
Unwanted
Repeated

If you are a victim of stalking, you may have recourse to some protective remedies via the Family Court.

Non-Molestation Orders

This is a type of injunction which is aimed at protecting you from a range of behaviours that can include stalking and harassment.

This option is available to those who are being stalked by what we refer to as an “associated person”. This includes people such as family members and ex-partners of the victim.

Injunction under Protection from Harassment Act 1976

Victims of stalking can also apply for an injunction under the Protection from Harassment Act. If granted this is a civil order from the Court which prohibits the stalker from taking steps which are considered to be stalking or harassment. The victim may also be able to seek damages from the Civil Court via this route.

This option is available to all who are being stalked, including those victims who are being stalked by a stranger for example.

It is always sensible to speak to a solicitor about the most appropriate options for you in the first instance as this can of course vary dependent upon your specific set of circumstances.

The police can also apply for a Stalking Protection Order on your behalf which is a civil order. They may also refer your case to the Crown Prosecution Service who may decide to prosecute the stalker via the Criminal Courts in addition to the above Family Court remedies.

If you are indeed being stalked or harassed and you feel that you are in danger, we would always suggest that you contact the police. There is also a National Stalking Helpline that you can contact for help.

If you need advice on this topic, or any other matters concerning divorce or family law, please get in touch with our team at McAlister Family Law.

Co-parenting on Mother’s Day

Posted on 7th March 20247th March 2024 by McAlister Family Law

Co-parenting on Mother’s Day

Whilst Mother’s Day is a special time of year, celebrating the enduring love and connection between mothers and their children, for many families, it can be a difficult day. Here, Charlotte Procter looks at how communication, flexibility and planning can keep the best interest of the Child/ren at heart when Co-parenting on Mother’s Day.

There are now over 2.5 million separated families in the UK and this occasion can especially present practical challenges and emotional complexities for families post-separation.

Research consistently underscores the benefits of children maintaining positive relationships with both parents post-separation. These benefits include improved emotional resilience, academic performance, and overall well-being.

It is important that parents remain focused on what is best for the children and take into consideration their wishes and feelings. It is also important to bear in mind the emotional impact on the child if they were not to see their mother on Mother’s Day, and equally if they were not able to see their father on Father’s Day.

An unamicable breakup can involve emotions and resentment. It is important for parents not to allow these feelings to impact their child’s relationship with their other parent. If a child is aware of hostility between their parents, this can have a negative impact on their relationship with their parents.

Special occasions such as Mother’s Day can often be overlooked by parents when making agreements in relation to contact, and making these agreements can be a big task for parents who are not on amicable terms.

Planning in Advance

It is therefore beneficial that discussions about special occasions are had in advance, allowing arrangements to be made in enough time. Having a clear and agreed plan will benefit the children and remove any uncertainty.

Communication is Key

It is also important that parents maintain open and respectful communication whilst making these arrangements. Co-parenting apps, such as talking parents, can assist parents in agreeing contact arrangements for the children.

Remain Flexible

Parents will need to remain flexible with the arrangements made and ensure they remain child focused as changes may need to be made to these arrangements as the children get older.

It may be that the parents already have an agreement in place and Mother’s Day may fall on a day when the child is meant to be with their father. It may therefore be necessary for parents to swap or change weekends to allow the child to spend time with their mother on Mother’s Day, and equally for them to spend time with their father on Father’s Day.

These arrangements can be even more difficult for LGBTQ families as they may need to consider whether to split the day or alternate years.

Encouragement

It is important for parents to support their children in expressing their love and appreciation for their other parent on special occasions, and if they are able to, to help them plan thoughtful gestures or gifts.

Another important consideration is ensuring that children feel like they have the endorsement of the other parent to have a good time, to enable them to make positive memories on important special occasions like Mother’s Day.

Other Options Available

If parents cannot reach an agreement between themselves, going to mediation may be useful. This is a cheaper alternative than going to court and the mediators can help the parents to reach an agreement.

Another useful option, before considering seeking assistance from the courts, may be to seek advice from a qualified solicitor or legal professional.

However, in situations where an agreement has broken down or cannot be reached, it may be necessary for parents to look to the family to court to help them define the time that the children spend with each parent. The child’s welfare is of paramount importance within the family court and so, as part of the court procedures, the child’s wishes and feeling are taken into account.

Regardless of how parents may feel about one another co-parenting is a collaborative effort. By prioritising open communication and making practical agreements, separated parents can create meaningful Mother’s Day celebrations ensuring their children make positive memories with both parents.

If you need advice on this topic, or any other matters concerning divorce or family law, please get in touch with our team at McAlister Family Law.

A second bite at the cherry- will it get harder after Potanina v Potanin?

Posted on 19th February 2024 by McAlister Family Law

A second bite at the cherry- will it get harder after Potanina v Potanin?

There has long been a (legitimate) practice of parties who have international links choosing a jurisdiction for divorce which suits them best. Often this relates to a particular jurisdiction’s approach to maintenance or specific types of assets, such as inherited, pre-acquired assets and so on. It is commonly known as “forum shopping”. Here, Lisa Brown looks at the ongoing case of Potanina v Potanin and their multi-million-pound separation.

The recent appeal decision in Potanina v Potanin [2023] UKSC 3, however, is an example of something slightly different. Put simply, this is having “another go” in England and Wales if the jurisdiction in which you originally divorced may not have resulted in a favourable financial settlement.

Legal basis

Part III of the Matrimonial and Family Proceedings Act 1984 allows a party to make an application to the family court in England and Wales, even where there has been a divorce and financial settlement elsewhere. In order to do so, there must be a substantial connection with England and Wales and the purpose, per the case of Agbaje, is to alleviate the adverse consequences of no, or no adequate, financial provision being made in a foreign court.

Background to Potanina v Potanin

Both parties in this case were Russian nationals. They met as teenagers and married in Russia in 1983. They had 3 children who were brought up in Russia and they divorced in Russia in 2014. It was only after the dissolution of their marriage that Natalia Potanina moved to London.

In the early days of the marriage, they were not well off but, in the 1990s, Vladimir Potanin became hugely wealthy.

Between 2014 and 2018 there were 5 separate proceedings litigated in the Russian courts, there were also proceeding in the US and Cyprus.

The central issue, in terms of the provision by the Russian courts, was that whilst marital assets were divided equally, this only included assets legally owned by the parties and excluded the various trusts and companies in which the husband held almost all of his wealth.

The result ultimately was that Natalia Potanina received payments to her that she says totalled $41.5m and Vladimir Potanin says totalled $84m- in either case a fraction of what she would have received if all of the beneficially owned assets had been included.

English proceedings

On 8 October 2018 Natalia Potanina issued an application under section 13 of the 1984 Act for leave to apply for financial relief under Part III (on the basis she had been habitually resident here for 1 year).

The application was made without notice by Cohen J on 25 January 2019. Whilst the judge’s strong inclination was to order a hearing on notice to Mr Potanin, he was ultimately persuaded by Leading Counsel not to, and he granted leave.

As the application was granted without notice Mr Potanin had 7 days to apply to set this aside which he duly did. His application was heard by Cohen J on 3 and 4 October who then dismissed the wife’s application commenting that:

“if this claim is allowed to proceed then there is effectively no limit to divorce tourism”

Natalia Potanin then appealed this decision and her appeal was allowed by King LJ on the basis that whilst she felt the way it should have been dealt with was a hearing with both parties present, having made the decision not to do that, there were limitations on the judge’s ability to set aside his original decision which effectively meant that unless the court had been misled or a decisive authority overlooked the application to set aside should be adjourned to be heard with the main application. The initial order granting leave was restored.

The Supreme Court (2 judges dissenting), however, did not feel that the law did/ should presently restrict a judge’s powers on a set aside application in the way described by King LJ. They felt that on a such an application the court should consider whether the application should be set aside because the conditions for leave are not met. They were, however, not critical of the Court of Appeal’s approach in the circumstances and given the procedural history (set out in the judgment).

So where are we now?

The test on an application to set aside leave in these types of cases should be to decide a fresh hearing both sides whether the order should be made or not. It may be there is now procedural reform in respect of these types of application.

The case has been hailed as a “win” for Vladimir Potanin but, for Natalia Potanina, all was not lost as she had also challenged the set aside decision on the basis that:

She has satisfied the test for the granting of leave in any event.
The application shouldn’t be dismissed insofar as the court has jurisdiction under Maintenance Regulation.

These points of appeal have gone back to the Court of Appeal to be decided and so the case goes on….

The court did point out that the facts of this case were probably an unreliable guide for most people given the husband was on of the richest people in the world and the wife already has many millions of US dollars. Put simply, in their case all this litigation and the costs that go with it are worth it in terms of what there is to lose/ gain.

For most people that may not be the case and therefore if the test for leave is effectively to be “harder” it is all the more important to get early advice from a specialist family solicitor with experience in jurisdiction issues.

If you need advice on this topic, or any other matters concerning divorce or family law, please get in touch with our team at McAlister Family Law.

We got married in Las Vegas – is it a legal marriage?

Posted on 14th February 202414th February 2024 by McAlister Family Law

We got married in Las Vegas – is it a legal marriage?

If you just got married in Las Vegas or you are planning to. You may wonder, is the marriage legal? The answer is, it depends! Here, Weronika Husejko looks at what a sin city wedding means in the courts of England and Wales.

It is a common theme in many romantic comedies. You may recall the famous scene in ‘Friends’ where Ross and Rachel get married in Las Vegas and don’t remember it the next day. Las Vegas is a very popular marriage destination in real life. As many as 3,500 British people get married in Las Vegas every year.

Your marriage in Las Vegas will generally be legally recognised in England and Wales if: –

It complies with the local laws and procedure – which in these circumstances would be those of the state of Nevada; and
The marriage would be allowed under the law of England and Wales.

This would apply to the majority of marriage ceremonies that take place abroad, whether in Las Vegas or elsewhere. Therefore, if it is a legal marriage in the state of Nevada, and it also complies with the laws of England and Wales at the time of marriage, it should be legal in England and Wales.

One requirement in England and Wales is that any previous marriage should have been formally ended i.e., you should be divorced at the time that you participate in the marriage ceremony. You should also have complied with the legal age for marriage in England and Wales, which has now risen to 18 years of age in all circumstances.

There is no requirement for you to register your Las Vegas marriage in the UK. Instead, you should ensure that you take your original marriage certificate back home with you and keep it in a safe place. If it is ever lost, it may be more difficult to obtain a new certified copy of the marriage certificate from Las Vegas, due to it being abroad.

If you are planning toeget married in Las Vegas, it is a good idea to do some research regarding the local laws relating to marriage in the state of Nevada. One way to do so is to contact the local authorities, as they should be able to advise you as to what you will need to do to prepare for the marriage ceremony including what documents you will have to bring with you.

Planning ahead means that you can ensure that your marriage ceremony meets all of the requirements necessary for a legal marriage in Las Vegas and in England and Wales.

We can provide you with specialist advice as to the laws in England and Wales in relation to your marriage, and what is required to make sure that it is considered to be legal.

If you need advice on this topic, or any other matters concerning divorce or family law, please get in touch with our team at McAlister Family Law.

Will court fee increase in family courts negatively impact access to justice?

Posted on 7th February 20247th February 2024 by McAlister Family Law

Will court fee increase in family courts negatively impact access to justice?

When a relationship ends, those that are married or in a civil partnership have no option but to issue a divorce application if they want to legally formalise their separation. Along with the divorce application, separating couples may also need to pay for a financial order application and a parental order application. Here, Fiona Wood looks at the recent announcement that there will be an increase to all court fees in 2024, and raises the concern that low income households may find themselves unable to make necessary family applications.

If a couple do decide to divorce, as well as issuing a divorce applicaition, they also need to obtain a financial settlement which needs to be approved by a judge if it is to be binding and enforceable. Even if the separation is amicable, a court fee is payable when a divorce application is made and a court fee is payable when a financial agreement is submitted to court for a judge’s approval.

A court fee is also payable by separated parents if they are unable to agree arrangements for their children and need to make an application to court (known as a Parental Order application) to ask a judge to assist them with this issue.

If there are ongoing proceedings regarding finances or children, there can be additional smaller court fees that have to be paid within the court process.

You may be exempt from these fees if you have limited or no income and little or no savings. However, many of those making family court applications have to pay these fees.

The court fees were last increased in September 2021. It has recently been announced that there will be an increase of 10% in all court fees in 2024, including those in family cases. The date for the fee increase has not yet been announced. The main court fees in family proceedings are as follows:

Divorce application – current fee £593 – new fee £652
Financial Order application (if finances not agreed) – current fee £275 – new fee £303
Financial Order application (if agreed) – current fee £53 – new fee £58
Parental order application – current fee £232 – new fee £255

The rationale for the increase is that the court fees are needed to help fund the court system. We are told that in 2022/2023 cost £2.3 billion to fund the court system and £727 million of this was funded from court fees. As the cost of running the court system increases the fees are increased to assist with this cost.

Whilst it is understandable that money needs to be raised to fund that court system, there is a concern that increasing the court fees will prevent many on low incomes from making necessary family court applications.

Legal fees for those who have separated and who need to make an application asking court regarding finances or arrangements for their children, are a struggle for many who have limited income or savings. Legal Aid is only available in very limited circumstances to deal with the legal issues that can arise when a relationship ends. To qualify for Legal Aid not only must you have very limited income and capital, but there must also have been recent domestic violence.

For those of limited means who do not qualify for Legal Aid, many have no option but to represent themselves within the court process. The number of case where both spouses/cohabitees represent themselves within family court proceedings has increased by 25% between 2013 and 2022, which shows how many are struggling with funding the court process. Increasing the court fees will only make this more difficult for them and could leave some unable to afford access to the family court.

If you or someone you know is affected by the issues raised in this blog post, we can provide you with expert legal advice. For more information, please get in touch with our specialist team at hello@mcalisterfamilylaw.co.uk

New fund to help domestic abuse victims escape abuse and help rebuild their lives.

Posted on 22nd January 202422nd January 2024 by McAlister Family Law

New fund to help domestic abuse victims escape abuse and help rebuild their lives.

The Home Office announced that it is introducing a £2 million pound fund to provide support by way off a one-off payment to victims of domestic abuse to help them leave their abusers. Here, Melissa Jones, Senior Associate, looks at what this means for domestic abuse victims and what the funds covers.

What is the fund and how do I make a claim?

From 31^st January 2024, if you are a victim of domestic abuse and you do not have the funds to leave your abuser (if you live together) then you can apply for a one-off payment of £500 for essential items and support with new accommodation.

In addition to the above, victims of domestic abuse can also apply for a further one-off payment of up to £2500 to “help secure a sustainable independent future, such as putting down a deposit for rental accommodation.”

The fund is set to last until March 2025 initially. Women’s Aid has been reappointed to help deliver this service and as of last year the fund helped over 600 victims to safety.

It has been reported that victims of domestic abuse find it hard to leave their abuser due to the costs of living and accommodation costs.

What is Domestic Abuse?

Domestic abuse is when someone close to you, often a partner or spouse causes you physical, sexual, financial or emotional hardship. It is a misconception that in order for you to be categorized as being in an abusive relationship, there must be physical violence. In many cases there is no physical violence; instead, there is psychological and emotional abuse.

Domestic violence can take many forms. Other than physical violence and threats of violence, you may feel intimidated by things that are said to you, or the manner in which you are treated. You may feel controlled and prevented from spending time with friends and family. Abuse can be verbal; you may feel belittled by your partner at home or in front of others.

Senior Associate, Melissa Jones comments “this is a very good initiative and practical step for victims of domestic abuse who are suffering immensely and do not need the added stress of financial constraints when leaving their abuser. With domestic abuse being linked to depression and homelessness, anything that can help to reduce both of these issues is very much needed. Hopefully this will provide immediate and swift assistance to those that need it”.

If you believe you are, or someone you know is suffering from domestic abuse, then there are ways to help you, and them. At McAlister Family Law we can help victims of domestic abuse by advising them on the most appropriate course of action in their particular situation.

Anyone who requires help or support can contact the National Domestic Abuse Helpline which is open 24/7 365 days per year on 0808 2000 247 or via their website https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk

Is a divorce on the cards for Kyle Walker and Annie Kilner?

Posted on 18th January 2024 by McAlister Family Law

Is a divorce on the cards for Kyle Walker and Annie Kilner?

After an Instagram story posted by Annie Kilner, it seems that Manchester City star Kyle Walker’s marriage to his childhood sweetheart is at an end. Here, Heather Lucy looks at what will happen if the couple do divorce, how the assets may be divided and how their children’s welfare will be taken into consideration.

On an Instagram story, Annie Kilner has said she is ‘taking some time away’ from her marriage to the football star and online communities are convinced that this means a divorce is on the cards. This seems all the more likely given that Walker has left the family home. Online publications are now speculating whether Kilner is going to have the ‘final revenge’ by seeking a financial settlement on divorce. Whilst this framing is not helpful in trying to have an amicable divorce (which is sensible especially when there are children involved), it does throw up some questions about what will happen to the couple’s finances if a divorce really is on the cards.

Walker and Kilner were married in 2021. On the face of it, it therefore sounds like their marriage was short-lived. This is relevant because the courts take into account the length of a marriage when dividing up matrimonial assets on divorce. They do not, however, limit this to the time since ‘I do’. The relevant timeframe is the length of time since the couple began to live together (if they did so without a break) to when they separated. Walker and Kilner reportedly dated for 12-13 years before they married, though when they first moved in together is not public knowledge. This could, therefore, be an important distinction for the couple as it seems likely to take them from a short marriage to a long one which means that the court would be more likely to use an equal division of the matrimonial assets as a starting point. One fly in the ointment, however, might be the couple’s earlier split in 2019. Kilner will need to take some careful legal advice about this.

During the 2019 split, Walker met Lauryn Goodman who is a model and influencer. Together, they had a child, Kairo, and there are speculations that Goodman’s daughter (born in 2023) was also fathered by Walker. Walker and Kilner share three children together. When looking at the division of finances on divorce, the welfare of children of the family will be the court’s priority. Whilst Goodman’s child(ren) may not be considered ‘children of the family’ (which depends on whether they have been treated as such), Walker’s obligations to them are likely to feature heavily in any negotiations that take place.

The length of the marriage and the existence of children are just two of the factors that the court takes into account when considering the financial division between parties on divorce. Please see Fiona Wood’s article on section 25 of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973 to explore this in further detail.

Historically, Kilner would have been able to issue an application for divorce on the basis of Walker’s infidelity. This, however, changed in April 2022 when the no-fault divorce regime came into force. This means that the couple’s focus will remain on dividing their assets rather than trying to assign blame to each other for the breakdown of the marriage… in the courts at least. Hopefully, if the marriage has broken down irretrievably, both Walker and Kilner will take good legal advice and aim to reach a resolution in a way that will allow a positive co-parenting relationship for their children.